Start here
Begin with the part that feels most true today.
You do not need to decide what everything means. Choose one recent moment. The aim is to gather a little more information—not to reach a verdict about yourself.
Most routes lead to the same five-minute tool with different starting language. Choosing a doorway describes a situation. It does not describe a diagnosis, and it does not commit you to an explanation.
Choose a doorway
What is happening?
My capacity changes without warning
Map the load, recovery, support and timing around a moment when what you could do changed.
Often used for inconsistent functioning, overload, or “why could I do this yesterday?”
Map this momentI want to begin, but cannot make myself start
Look at clarity, size, interest, transitions, pressure and whether a first step was visible.
Often used for task initiation, avoidance, freezing, or getting stuck between tasks.
Map this momentI feel overwhelmed and do not know what I need
Separate sensory input, emotional demand, uncertainty and bodily or practical needs.
Often used when “too much” is accurate but not yet specific enough to act on.
Map this momentI have stopped, but I am not recovering
Notice whether your version of rest reduces input, responsibility and internal pressure.
Often used when downtime stays agitating, numbing, guilty or surprisingly effortful.
Map this momentI want connection, but interaction feels too demanding
Map the type, timing, intensity and recovery cost of contact—not only whether you wanted it.
Often used for conflicting needs, messages, calls, plans and post-social recovery.
Map this momentI have adapted for so long that I do not know what fits
Notice which choices bring steadiness, energy or relief when nobody is grading the result.
Often used for masking, inherited expectations, identity and life-design questions.
Map this momentNo room for reflection?
Use the version that asks only one question.
Choose whether reducing a demand, reducing an input, asking for one support or pausing decisions might help most—and stop there. Not all of these are available to everyone in every situation, and “none of these are possible right now” is a real answer. You can return to the longer map later, or not at all.
What happens next
One moment. A few questions. One optional experiment.
- 01
Choose a specific recent moment rather than describing your whole life.
- 02
Mark the conditions that were present. Presence is not proof of cause.
- 03
Write more than one possible reading, so the first explanation is not the only one.
- 04
Choose one reversible change—or choose to observe once more instead.